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19 Better is a poor person who walks in his integrity
than one who is crooked in speech and is a fool.
Desire without knowledge is not good,
and whoever makes haste with his feet misses his way.
When a man’s folly brings his way to ruin,
his heart rages against the LORD.
Wealth brings many new friends,
but a poor man is deserted by his friend.
A false witness will not go unpunished,
and he who breathes out lies will not escape.
Many seek the favor of a generous man,
and everyone is a friend to a man who gives gifts.
All a poor man’s brothers hate him;
how much more do his friends go far from him!
He pursues them with words, but does not have them.
Whoever gets sense loves his own soul;
he who keeps understanding will discover good.
A false witness will not go unpunished,
and he who breathes out lies will perish.
It is not fitting for a fool to live in luxury,
much less for a slave to rule over princes.
Good sense makes one slow to anger,
and it is his glory to overlook an offense.
A king’s wrath is like the growling of a lion,
but his favor is like dew on the grass.
A foolish son is ruin to his father,
and a wife’s quarreling is a continual dripping of rain.
House and wealth are inherited from fathers,
but a prudent wife is from the LORD.
Slothfulness casts into a deep sleep,
and an idle person will suffer hunger.
Whoever keeps the commandment keeps his life;
he who despises his ways will die.
Whoever is generous to the poor lends to the LORD,
and he will repay him for his deed.
Discipline your son, for there is hope;
do not set your heart on putting him to death.
A man of great wrath will pay the penalty,
for if you deliver him, you will only have to do it again.
Listen to advice and accept instruction,
that you may gain wisdom in the future.
Many are the plans in the mind of a man,
but it is the purpose of the LORD that will stand.
What is desired in a man is steadfast love,
and a poor man is better than a liar.
The fear of the LORD leads to life,
and whoever has it rests satisfied;
he will not be visited by harm.
The sluggard buries his hand in the dish
and will not even bring it back to his mouth.
Strike a scoffer, and the simple will learn prudence;
reprove a man of understanding, and he will gain knowledge.
He who does violence to his father and chases away his mother
is a son who brings shame and reproach.
Cease to hear instruction, my son,
and you will stray from the words of knowledge.
A worthless witness mocks at justice,
and the mouth of the wicked devours iniquity.
Condemnation is ready for scoffers,
and beating for the backs of fools.
(ESV)
Proverbs 19 Commentary
by Hank Workman
Sometimes we build a house of cards. We have plans we want to see accomplished. We have purposes we want to attain. We have goals we want to reach. And really, as it’s part of our being to creatively pursue our future, if we are not set on the Rock of Jesus Christ, our plans are not built on Him but on our own desires, these will fail.
We’ve all been there.
We’ve relentlessly pursued something whether it dealt with relationships, career, or even a spiritual ministry. Much like chasing the wind, there was a cost in the end and it ended up empty. The relationship ended. The career was reached but what was lost in getting there? The spiritual ministry was sought but we ignored other needs in the process.
There is such a fine line in seeking the discernment of God in what He wants and pursuing what we desire even if good things. These two paths can get so muddled.
“Many plans are in a man’s heart, but the counsel of the Lord will stand.”
Proverbs 19:21
Truly, as this Proverb states, we must seek the counsel of the Lord. We must pursue His thoughts and pray for His revelation as to the direction we are to take. It sounds so basic, doesn’t it? But this is part of our ever-growing relationship with Him. It is about taking all of our desires and laying them before Him. It is about pursuing in prayer, the practicality of what we long to see accomplished and asking for Him to open the way.
And yes, it is about interceding in our relationship with Him for clarification and then listening and acting upon what He impresses upon us. And sometimes those pressing in moments are His answers of stop, no, regroup. Sometimes what we want is not in the plans of His will, even if we come from good intentions.
If we continue on our own path these desires and plans of ours will fail if we have not God’s blessing. Our house of cards will tumble. But if we are in communication and heed His counsel – the glorious outcome will be orchestrated by Him and the goal will be reached; purpose fulfilled and enjoyed.
Proverbs 19 Commentary
by Brad Boyles
If you are like me then you might have read this chapter and become uncomfortable with a few of the verses. For instance, this one…
“Wealth attracts many friends, but a poor man is separated from his friend.”
Proverbs 19:4 HCSB
And this one…
“All the brothers of a poor man hate him; how much more do his friends keep their distance from him! He may pursue them with words, but they are not there.”
Proverbs 19:7 HCSB
Are these verses saying that being rich is better than being poor? I don’t think so. Several passages in the NT talk about giving to the poor, helping those in need, and that loving money is a sin. So what do these verses mean?
Proverbs is a book about wisdom. It’s the facts of life. This statement is a true one, but not necessarily how it ought to be. I am reminded of the story of the prodigal son who leaves with his share of his father’s inheritance. It’s no doubt he was richer, and I’m sure he met many new “friends” on the way. It’s certainly true that many in this life are attracted to powerful people with money and status versus the poor, needy, and hungry. This is the sad reality of our world.
If anything, these verses should stir our compassion as Christians to change the status quo.